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Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Vote Result (Week 9)

If there is a safety guide on an Online Dating Website, would you follow it?


According to the chart, 60% of the voters have agree that they will follow the steps or guidelines, and for the 20% of the voters doesn’t agree the others 20% voters never tried Online Dating before and not sure for that.


So the majorities of the voter agree that if there are the guidelines on how to use the online dating website the voters will follow the steps and use it. The reason that many people agree that is maybe the people want to choose a safety online dating website and follow the according guidelines to use the online dating website safely. In addition, they also know what are the rules that need to having in the online dating website, so that they will not having problem to use the online dating.


The others 20% of the people votes that not sure and saying no when using online dating website is because they know that using online dating website is wasting their time and they doesn’t have any extra time for knowing new friends. So no matter the online dating website will give the guidelines they will not use the website. Besides that, for those people who use online dating they will not follow the guideline that provides is maybe that they have the bad experience when using the guidelines.


Thanks for giving your opinion.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Online Dating May Have Viruses

To my friends if you want to enter any online dating website please beware some of the online dating website because there are some of the online dating website may cause viruses and will block you to enter the website. This will make sure that you are avoiding all the spyware to steal your personal information.

If you want to use online dating website try to find some safety website to enter it because it will make you feel safely when you using online dating website. Beside that not all online dating website have viruses or spyware, for example for those online dating website which have the license that will provide you enter safety. In addition, if you want to enter the online dating website, the website itself has the firewall to block you for entering and will let you select whether you chose to enter or you block the website, this may cause you entering the website that full of spyware.

So chose to use a safety online dating website that will let you feel safety when you using it. Other than that, if the website which appeals some boxes that need you to click in and check the mail, please beware of that because the boxes may be the viruses. If you click in, your computer will straight away have the viruses, so think carefully when you want to enter the site.

Remember my friends this are the basic way that we need to be careful when enter any of the website to avoid the disadvantage.
Thanks for the comment.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Teen Online Dating

Protecting a child is an instinct that all parents have. Therefore, when a parent hear about bad press about teen online dating, their immediate respond is to say "NO". They are always concerned about their safety and how their young will be lured into something bad.


The Dangers
When it comes to the internet, teenagers may think that they are safe and in no danger at all. Well, that is completely false and wrong. When you log into the internet millions of people can access your information and figure things out that you did not know. Identity theft is a big and growing problem and teen dating sites are like an open door to a mansion for these thieves. When a teen is in an online dating service you may want to monitor them and make sure they are not telling people where they live or any numbers at all.


Be Safe
The most important thing to do before registering with a teen online dating site is making sure it is a safe place. It is advisable that you stick to reputable sites. If you join a site that has a lot of issues with online stalkers or identity thefts, it is better not to join that site. Never give out any personal information to another member. Do not give out your phone number or address of where you live. Stalkers and criminals feed of this information and try their hardest to get it. Even if you know the person then they should know what you have told them already.


Teen online dating services provide a lot of things for the teen between the ages of 13 to 19. Some of these services can be the best thing to hit teen online dating. A word of caution to all teens, before entering the world of teen online dating, just make sure your parents know what you are doing, who you are talking to, and all the cons and pros of the site. In order to make your online dating experience safe and fun, always be cautious. This may seem old fashioned but your parents will trust you more. It is always better to tell them.


Please send your comments. Thank you. Cheers. =)

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Vote Results (Week 8)

Online Dating limits the relationship with a society. Do you agree?


According to the analysis, 14% of the voters have agreed that Online Dating limits the relationship with a society whereas 57% percent of the voters feel otherwise and the remaining 29% of the voters feel uncertain.

The majority of the voters have disagreed that Online Dating limits the relationship with a society. The reason many people disagreed could be because society today are more open minded to this topic. They do not feel it affects the relationship between an individual and a society. It does not mean that people who date online will not socialize with others just because they sit in front of the computer and chat with another. Everyone has their own way of socializing and even chatting online is a way of socializing as there is interaction with one another.


14% of the voters have agreed that Online Dating limits the relationship with a society. The reason these voters agreed about this could possibly be because they feel the person who dates online does not get to talk so much with the outside world. Well, they are definitely forgetting that the person on the other side of the computer is also a person and they are also socializing in a way. The only difference is in the way of socializing which is chatting online.


29% of the voters felt uncertain to whether or not Online Dating limits the relationship with a society. Well, hopefully they know what society thinks about this topic now and that it the society is more broadminded now.


Well, please feel free to let me know your opinion. Thank you. Cheers always. =)

Saturday, March 14, 2009

A Guide to Dating

Dating is usually like a book of life to tell people about themselves. So many people view dating is like a mocking aspect of life, without any real hope. However, view dating as a game and pursuit with the object has been through much experience. But still there are some people think that the dating is some kind of evil must get to the relationship that has the obligation and protection that they wish in their life. It regardless of the motive, dating is such a unique that the human experience with participants most of the people during their life time.

In addition dating can have a lot of fun way to know a lot of new friends or even start a new relationship. So many people try to start a new relationship to know their first taste can be good or bad, to allow the rules of dating that can be the effective guide to learn how to act in a relationship and the dating rules that will impact the course of the relationship.

In the general rules of dating there are existing multiplicities of protocols in term of dealing with one another. Mean while there are some of them think that is common sense some can be debate for other, for example, the debate for the first experience of “first kiss”. Besides that, many learner say that the first should be take place within three dates, and some of them say that first kiss can be take part in any time in any place.

In different culture, dating a form of marriage preparation that and in other word it serves as a form of entertainment which people can get any promise. The dating is changing every year and will continue changing when the new generation has come.

Yet, there are some of the people think that both dating and the marriage have the connection together. But there are the cultures that refuse to think that the conception between the dating and the marriage are related. In India, the people there have the conception of “arrange marriage’ they have no choice for choosing their lover because they don’t believe of dating. In addition, it has saved a person time to search for their partner from a “sea” because they are different type of people that we don’t know. So an arranged marriage has become a simple choice which will skip from the tough task for giving people a good impression and straight away get a good people.

Dating has become different in the entire world. For the western people dating has become a symbol of honor when reach the age, and now dating is some kind of embarrass things and doesn’t want other people to know. In another way marriage is like settlers and many people does not want that. The western people want to have a fun and exciting dating so that they will take time to settle down and think for their further. But in other culture, they think dating are more realistic and the whole process has just skipped together.
Reference resource found at http://www.buzzle.com/ [HTML online], retrieved 12th March 2009

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

How to start a conversation with someone you are interested in?

Once you've found someone that interests you, and that you seem to share some common background information with, you'll want to contact them. Messaging other singles is the second step in the quest to find singles, and you'll want to ensure that your first message stands out. There are a variety of ways to make the first message you send different and unique, and therefore, remarkable:

  • Say hello and mention that you saw their profile. You may want to add what you liked about the profile.
  • Be sincere. Use your compliments sparingly. No matter how honest you are, if you are excessively praising this person, it will seem phony.
  • Introduce yourself. Briefly state your name and a little bit about what your interests are. If you write too much, you risk the chance of the person never reading it.
  • Ask a few questions. Two or three is a good number for a first message. Focus on questions that have the potential to open up conversation, rather than close-ended questions.
  • Don't forget to highlight your qualities that match theirs. Or, the traits you possess that coincide with what this single looks for in a partner. Remember you're looking for someone with a common background.
  • End with a brief closing and that you hope to hear from them soon.
Please feel free to send your feedback regarding this topic. Thank you. Cheers. =)

Monday, March 9, 2009

Vote Results (Week 7)

What is your opinion about Online Dating?



According to the Pie Chart, it show that 45.5% of the people have their opinion that online dating is bad and another 45.5% of people doesn’t know online dating. For the people have their opinion that online dating is good cost 10%. This has show that majority people think that online dating is a bad website and does not want to know.

Most of the voters agree that online dating is a bad website so they don’t want to try to use, beside that, online dating is also waste time because most of the people rather waste the time to do the exercise to give them healthy life time. Moreover, online dating is full of secret because we don’t know what kind of people we are meeting.

Online dating has a risk to know friend because it has the bad influence that may cause the society to determine the true. Many of them are also agree that online dating is not a practical dating, they rather face to face dating. In addition,some of them using online dating can know the true experience so that they can avoid the bad things of online dating.

The other 10% of the voters think it is good because they have the experience on how to use the online dating website, beside that, they also can find some friends on the online dating website. So in another way they find online dating is a very fun website.

Friday, March 6, 2009

How to make online dating safe and fun?

How online dating can be safe when using it? So in this article I am going to give some tips to make sure that it my friend can keep contact in online dating and even face to face meet. Below are the 10 ways of safety tips which will give you the best result:

1.Carefully when you picking your partner
Picking your partner doesn’t mean that chose your loving partner it means you’re online dating service. So you must pick the right offer that will provide you the best protection feature if you are looking for your loving partner. In addition when you sign up for any online dating website you will have to search the way that can protect yourself which keep your information secretly, safety and with the protection tips and it also must have the privacy area that will give you the best selection. Moreover, you also must check does the website avoid unwanted people to adding you? What are the consumer protections that the website provides? If we pay money for using the website does it provide the safety issue?

2.Keep your personal information
When signing up or contacting a new person for an online dating website you should not use your real name, address, personal phone number, even the actual city or place you live. Mutually the men and the woman should protect their personal information from giving out too much especially some person what to know more about you. Usually for the online services the process are via the e-mail and generally it comes before in-person meeting is planned. So during the comfortable period you should not tell out where are you live, where you work, keep your last name and personal phone number in secret or you better not posting it during the conversation.

Some are the sites will help you protect your real information so that when you using it you will feel comfortable. To protecting your profile can let you avoid the bad outcome because the services will help you stay away from the unwanted person. Moreover, the sites can avoid the personality thief wanted to steal credit number and use you name to apply it.
Remember never let you friend to share your membership with the online dating services, or discuss other type of services that you can use. Never add new contact in your real massager or your social networking friends list this will protect your real life friend, because it will difficult to remove the person from the list.

3.Using a different e-mail

Try to use a fee e-mail that will keep your real identity secretly, separated the real your life different from working time. Do not use sexually name to set a user name because this will make the contact fully think of other things. Try not to give out too much of real you and make sure your password can easily guess.

3.You are the detective

Try to search the person identification from Yahoo or Google website and make he or she is a trusted person. If you find that the person has a bad history you can avoid that to chat with he or she, this will make your identity safety.

4.Be on safeguard

Protect your personal information, your receipts, the car keys and your purse/wallet during any face-to-face meetings to avoid thievery. Never share your password for your e-mail, or any social networking services. Remember do not use your real name or the date of birthday because this will avoid to know the person that you familiar.

5.Use the identity of the wing-man or wing-woman

When you are chatting with someone you can use the sign to tell the person your situation. Beside that you can also set up a safety call so that your friends can his is when you can ask a good and a reliable friend to call your cell phone. Try to establish the special codeword for your buddy that will allows you to create a reason or conversation that makes it sound like you need to end the date for an emergency or urgent matter.

6.Protect your phone number and your phone

If you want to contact with the person from the dating sites you must use a payphone or a disposable number, pre-paid cell phone or block your telephone's caller ID (by dialing *67 before dialing) because when you finish calling you can throw the card away to avoid other people to call you. If someone sends you unwanted message or calling it will have the security software available, such as the Norton Smartphone Security for your phone and it will help guard against unwanted calls and messages.

7.You can say “NO”

If you don’t want to chat with someone you can avoid chatting with them, dating suppose to be very romantic and my friend the advise that I give remember don’t agree to go someone house to meet, you must meet in the public place that full of people, moreover, you must park your car in the public so that it will make you feel comfortable when meeting someone alone.

8.Keep copy

Just like a usual life you should always keep a copy, so you should keep the copy of an e-mail, and other different type massager the people that you meet. Don’t expect the service will give you 100% real information because we don’t know what type of people we are meeting. If you have the copies you will have the protection.

9.Online security still in continuity

When you are using the online dating website the computer will appeal the gatekeeper this will save you from going to the wrong website. So when ever you visit the website the security will help you block away. Do not download the wrong file you must double check the file that you downloading because it may contain some virus. So I will advise my friends to use the security software

This is the tips that I giving to my dear friends, all the tips which according to our real life that is happen. Keep it out and you may find the fun experience, and maybe you may find some new on the website or even a true love partner. Remember play it safety.




Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Online Dating Chat Room Etiquette

Like all facets of life, there are conventions of etiquette. Chat rooms are not much different. Chat etiquette ensures that all users will enjoy an effective and fun chatting experience.

While it is understandable and expected that those who are new to chat rooms won't know all the conventions of chat etiquette, you should learn quickly.

One of the major things to remember while chatting is to not hog the chat room. Don't keep sending message after message or one word at a time. Write out a full sentence or a few phrases and wait for replies before continuing.

Remember that typing in all capital letters denotes anger and is the equivalent to yelling. Type as you would if you were writing a letter or an email to a friend.

Address people by using their screen name followed by a colon. If you know someone's real name, don't use it in the chat room. They may not want everyone knowing their real name.

Introduce yourself to the entire chat when you first sign in. Logging in and instantly directing a question to one person is rude.

Don't multitask. If you're in a chat room, chat. Don't watch television, surf the internet or read at the same time. It will be obvious when you ask the same question twice or disappear for a considerable amount of time.

Well, i hope these chat room etiquette has been helpful to you. Please feel free to send in some feedback. Thank you. =)
 
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