I have read an article about how to make a perfect dating strategy. Through this article, I agree what the author has said because most of it really happens.
There are many singles who were pursue a relationship by coaching to learn about the dating strategies and need some guidance to advice so that they can get it successfully. There are ten strategies that will successful in dating.
Although these strategies are old-fashioned and some people don't have the courage to try but these strategies are useful.
Let say if you are already in a relationship, these strategies may sparkle both of your relationship.
Here are the ten strategies:
1. If you are a woman who pursues the men first, you must not step out and you have to allow the men to pursue you. If you are the man who is waiting for a woman to ask you out, take the first step out and ask them out instead. A woman pursuing a man sets up an uncomfortable power dynamic that is difficult to change later. So remember the female try not to be the first person to move the first step because this will let the guys know that you are the one who want to start the relationship with them not the guys when your relationship is end they will always say back the first memory which will hurt your feeling.
2. Stay away from getting an early relationship together. Try to get to know each other well at least a few months and then only get into a relationship. These will make the conversation become the central of your interaction, so it will make it harder to experience other parts of your relationship. Remember start the early relationship doesn’t prove that you know him, or her well the beginning of the relationship will be very sweet but as time pass when you know both of you doesn’t know each other well, both of you will have to end the relationship.
3. Remember don’t have a sexual relationship until you are dedicated to the one you love. This may seem old fashioned but relationship is partnerships, although sexuality is a part of a relationship, but it is not a good foundation on which to build a relationship. If you build your relationship on sex, it will lose the interest of your partner as they will not feel at ease and comfortable, especially among women. Remember especially the female don’t give your virgin easily to the guys that don’t give you future because the virgin for the girls are very important it is represent the reputation on yourself. So, if your future husband knows that you are not the virgin he will not respect you.
4. Limit your time together in the beginning. If you miss that person, you can be on the phone with each other and talk to each other but be in control. How is a house built? Brick by brick. How you develop friendship? It takes time. Does the close relationship deserve any less? Remember love in the beginning is very sweet but when time pass everything will change both your topic will become less and in the end both of your relationship will end, not many people can continue their relationship until getting married especially now a day of the youngest.
5. Spend more time courting in person rather than using e-mail or phone. Electronic communication has a way to be anonymous and keep it safe. It can allow false sense of proximity. If you feel that the person is not safe, you can move away. Remember electronic things cannot represent that person because it will not judge the person you like. If you are not beside them they can just telling lies to you without letting you know? So make the decision for yourself.
6. Try to be yourself in all times during the dating process. This will make both of you clearly see if the relationship will work. If you are suitable, you will discover more things to like about each other. If you are not suitable, you will be able to find out earlier rather than later. Remember wearing the mask to start the relationship doesn’t help you to get the person you like in the same time when he or she knows your real personality they will left you.
7. Try to be clear from the beginning about how you want and don’t want to be treated. It is better to know how your new partner responds to your limits and standards. Remember trust each other is very important, if you telling lies to your partner you may losing him or her but if you say it out to your partner both of you may be more lovely.
8. Try to be aware of who your new partner is. At the same time, don’t automatically assume he will disappoint you in the same ways that you have been disappoints before. Try to give him a change to treat you well rather than testing to see if he will cause you pain. Remember every one in this world will do something wrong so don’t use your angle to judge you partner because this make them unfair, try to give them a change to explain. If you meet a person that you like don’t give him or her change first because at that moment you may still love you ex boy or ex girl friend this will make you confuse and this will make the person you like unfair, so try to think rationally.
9. Accept your new partner as she already or don’t engage in the relationship. Try to accept her behavior if her behavior continues you can try to change her behavior. If she love you a lot she will change for you. Remember you may change the person behavior if they really love you they will change it for you. If you let your partner continue with their behavior, in the end you will feel very hard to communicate with each other and in the end both of your relationship will end.
10. Enjoy. Have fun. Connect. Learn. Dating is wonderful. It’s a change to let you meet the new and interesting people to have fun activities. It’s an opportunity for growth. So it will make you life sparkle. Remember be patient will give you a better relationship try not be so childish with you partner because some of them feel very frustrating facing with you. This is how you maintain you relationship.
Reference Rinatta Paries, 1998-2001 Relationship Coach Newsletter resources found at http://www.whatittakes.com/, [HTML online], retrieved 21st JAN 2009
URL: http://www.chiff.com/a/dating-romance.htm
There are many singles who were pursue a relationship by coaching to learn about the dating strategies and need some guidance to advice so that they can get it successfully. There are ten strategies that will successful in dating.
Although these strategies are old-fashioned and some people don't have the courage to try but these strategies are useful.
Let say if you are already in a relationship, these strategies may sparkle both of your relationship.
Here are the ten strategies:
1. If you are a woman who pursues the men first, you must not step out and you have to allow the men to pursue you. If you are the man who is waiting for a woman to ask you out, take the first step out and ask them out instead. A woman pursuing a man sets up an uncomfortable power dynamic that is difficult to change later. So remember the female try not to be the first person to move the first step because this will let the guys know that you are the one who want to start the relationship with them not the guys when your relationship is end they will always say back the first memory which will hurt your feeling.
2. Stay away from getting an early relationship together. Try to get to know each other well at least a few months and then only get into a relationship. These will make the conversation become the central of your interaction, so it will make it harder to experience other parts of your relationship. Remember start the early relationship doesn’t prove that you know him, or her well the beginning of the relationship will be very sweet but as time pass when you know both of you doesn’t know each other well, both of you will have to end the relationship.
3. Remember don’t have a sexual relationship until you are dedicated to the one you love. This may seem old fashioned but relationship is partnerships, although sexuality is a part of a relationship, but it is not a good foundation on which to build a relationship. If you build your relationship on sex, it will lose the interest of your partner as they will not feel at ease and comfortable, especially among women. Remember especially the female don’t give your virgin easily to the guys that don’t give you future because the virgin for the girls are very important it is represent the reputation on yourself. So, if your future husband knows that you are not the virgin he will not respect you.
4. Limit your time together in the beginning. If you miss that person, you can be on the phone with each other and talk to each other but be in control. How is a house built? Brick by brick. How you develop friendship? It takes time. Does the close relationship deserve any less? Remember love in the beginning is very sweet but when time pass everything will change both your topic will become less and in the end both of your relationship will end, not many people can continue their relationship until getting married especially now a day of the youngest.
5. Spend more time courting in person rather than using e-mail or phone. Electronic communication has a way to be anonymous and keep it safe. It can allow false sense of proximity. If you feel that the person is not safe, you can move away. Remember electronic things cannot represent that person because it will not judge the person you like. If you are not beside them they can just telling lies to you without letting you know? So make the decision for yourself.
6. Try to be yourself in all times during the dating process. This will make both of you clearly see if the relationship will work. If you are suitable, you will discover more things to like about each other. If you are not suitable, you will be able to find out earlier rather than later. Remember wearing the mask to start the relationship doesn’t help you to get the person you like in the same time when he or she knows your real personality they will left you.
7. Try to be clear from the beginning about how you want and don’t want to be treated. It is better to know how your new partner responds to your limits and standards. Remember trust each other is very important, if you telling lies to your partner you may losing him or her but if you say it out to your partner both of you may be more lovely.
8. Try to be aware of who your new partner is. At the same time, don’t automatically assume he will disappoint you in the same ways that you have been disappoints before. Try to give him a change to treat you well rather than testing to see if he will cause you pain. Remember every one in this world will do something wrong so don’t use your angle to judge you partner because this make them unfair, try to give them a change to explain. If you meet a person that you like don’t give him or her change first because at that moment you may still love you ex boy or ex girl friend this will make you confuse and this will make the person you like unfair, so try to think rationally.
9. Accept your new partner as she already or don’t engage in the relationship. Try to accept her behavior if her behavior continues you can try to change her behavior. If she love you a lot she will change for you. Remember you may change the person behavior if they really love you they will change it for you. If you let your partner continue with their behavior, in the end you will feel very hard to communicate with each other and in the end both of your relationship will end.
10. Enjoy. Have fun. Connect. Learn. Dating is wonderful. It’s a change to let you meet the new and interesting people to have fun activities. It’s an opportunity for growth. So it will make you life sparkle. Remember be patient will give you a better relationship try not be so childish with you partner because some of them feel very frustrating facing with you. This is how you maintain you relationship.
Reference Rinatta Paries, 1998-2001 Relationship Coach Newsletter resources found at http://www.whatittakes.com/, [HTML online], retrieved 21st JAN 2009
URL: http://www.chiff.com/a/dating-romance.htm
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